



These resolutions include:
- Financial Stability
- Don't put effort into relationships when the other person doesn't
- Ban regrets- Absolutely EVERYTHING happens for a reason. TRUST it.
- Have a VERY SEXY New Year
The last one is the focus of this post. A very sexy New Year- over our almost decade of friendship, Stasia and I have seen proms, formals, theatre productions, high school in general, but we've also spent our fair share of time in sweat pants (and if you went to Villa and own a pair of our gym sweats you TOTALLY know why). The thing is, we wanted to up the ante a bit. Sweats have a time and a place (like right now, in my bedroom), but we vowed never to leave the house without putting some sort of effort into our appearance (some being the operative word here- a coat of mascara absolutely counts as effort).
Have I done this everyday? Well...actually, yeah, for the most part. I mean, there are very few ways I could make my Java Joe's uniform "sexy", but when I threw on a chunky ring or a killer pair of earrings with that delightful ensemble of black and red (the back of the t-shirt said "Get Baked". Class.), I was almost always complimented.
Now, I don't mean accessorize for compliments. I mean accessorize for confidence. Sounds entirely cliche, but it's true. By putting forth some sort of effort into the way I physically, or rather aesthetically, face the world, I found myself holding my head a little higher and walking a little taller (haha, I'm 5'2").
And Sta (Stasia) and I take this seriously. For example, a facebook convo:
Ra: sooooo I'm about to walk out the door and go to a flea market with my friends from college. And I realized, I looked like crap. Normally I wouldn't care, but then I remembered that time we made new years resolutions with each other :) Have a very sexy new year ♥
Sta: GO GET THAT MASCARAAAAAAA
All I'm asking is that you try it for a week and see what happens.
Oh, and I'm not saying that I've never gone out of the house in sweatpants. I definitely have. But I save them for really crappy/comfy days. Sometimes, nothing can come between a lady and her sweats :)
<-----------------------------Love you, Sta
Xo,
Rachel
The outfit consists of a nude colored tank top from Target (Mossimo Brand-$10), a JCrew Trapeze tent top with ruching at the top (JCrew Outlet $14), Grey Leggings (they just appeared in my room one day), thigh high reddish/brown, heeled boots from Ross ($25) and a beret with a flower and pearl embellishment ($20-Rice's Flea Market *Note, I call this hat my Kate Middleton hat because I want to be her). Total outfit= $69, accumulated over approximately 12 months. Average spent per month on this outfit= $5.75. Not bad at all!
You may have noticed that I didn't purchase any of these items from a high end store. That's because, like many people, I can't afford high end stores. I'm all about looking goooooooood and put together for LESS. I firmly believe there is no reason to pay full price for ANYTHING (with very limited exception-mascara being one). Here is a list of favorite places I get things for cheap!
1. Your own closet- It's your own personal store! You'd be amazed at what you can dig out of the back of your drawers!
2.Goodwill/Salvation Army- more hit or miss than Plato's Closet, but still totally worth the trip, especially for accessories. Pick up some jewelry there to accessorize. There's also usually a pretty good purse collection there.
3.Plato's Closet- Urban Outfitters/Anthropologie/Victoria's Secret/ Forever21/ Free People for a fraction of their actua retail value. That Anthro dress I mentioned earlier? $20, whereas instore it was easily $85-120.
4, Ross/TJMaxx/Marshalls- Brand names that are new for less. Pretty standard, always delightful.
5. Yard Sales/Estate Sales- people want to start selling lots of stuff for cheap because of the economy. Definitely hit or miss, but worth a shot. At the very least, you can grab a coffee table for $10. PS: Totally having a Yard/Estate/Home From College Sale on October 17. Email me for details!
Well, that's basically it for now. Cute outfit and my first personal venture into the world of thigh-high boots (do.it. Instantly feel confident and sexy. And the nice security guard at the library complimented them as well!). PS: Had my interview today at Plato's Closet- I'll let you know what happens! And I'll post pics of my interview outfit :)
Xo,
Rachel
Song I'm Listening To: Roxette- She's Got the Look